
By Ralph E. Moore Jr.
Particular to the AFRO
Between rampant gun violence and raging coronavirus, there’s large grief and trauma in Baltimore. Unattended and unresolved the dual scourges may result in the downfall of protected, safe residing wherever in Baltimore. “I’ve witnessed a lot trauma and unresolved grief over the previous 30 years,” stated Annette March-Grier, president of Roberta’s Home not too long ago.
“My mom, Julia Roberta March, would take heed to individuals who wished to speak by way of their grief.” Each Mrs. March and her husband, William C. March began a mother and pop funeral enterprise of their residence within the 900 block of East North Avenue in 1957. Accompanying providers and burials, folks wanted to speak about their loss so the Marches listened to widows, widowers and the youngsters of the dearly departed. “She taught us the significance of giving again to our neighborhood,” stated Ms. March-Grier. So, the thought of an precise counseling heart got here to Annette “organically” after years of observing her mother and father spending time listening. The demand for bereavement providers grew to become more and more obvious and the divine inspiration to open the middle visited her. “What home will you construct for me?” a voice seemingly from God requested her, as soon as Annette settled into a brand new residence along with her husband, Dino (Arthur). And so, inspiration grew to become motion, property acquisition, fundraising, workers planning and the bricks and mortar for a neighborhood service earlier this yr moved into a brand new three story, 22,000 sq. foot constructing.
Opened in June of 2007, Roberta’s Home is the primary bereavement heart within the nation based by and serving the African-American neighborhood. The brand new building, occupied by workers in January of 2021, is a cutting-edge facility on the East Baltimore website the place the March Funeral Dwelling and household residence as soon as stood. Roberta’s Home providers are free to anybody struggling the lack of a cherished one by way of violence or the onslaught of COVID 19.

Roberta’s Home was created by and named in honor of their mom. She had 4 kids: Cynthia M. Malloy, Erich W. March, Victor C. March, Sr. and Annette R. March-Grier who’re dedicated to high quality funeral providers and counseling for households in want. It’s Annette, knowledgeable healer as a Registered Nurse, who grew to become the enterprise’ bereavement facilitator. She entered into an ideal storm of grief the place households oftentimes begin with a devastating surprising dying. It will probably depart them pressured due to monetary unpreparedness and lack of ability to make burial selections simply. Loss and grief are additional aggravated by coronavirus for the previous yr, authorities limitations on what number of can attend funerals, the guilt and unhappiness of figuring out family members dying alone.
As the general public is being served, the workers of Roberta’s Home have to be stored protected and effectively by advising all workers members to comply with the standard protocols and in addition vaccinated. March-Grier states that the calls for of their workplaces are growing with extra deaths, extra workers members getting sick or burned out and workloads changing into extra demanding on a pressured workers.
And but, the work of grief counseling should go on.
Roberta’s Home focuses lots of its providers on kids taking note of the event phases of the younger individuals. Childhood grief and trauma are addressed appropriately. Youth are inspired to ask questions in regards to the finality of dying and the afterlife. Based on Annette March-Grier, “We help children by serving to them set up recollections of their deceased family members. We inform them typically issues occur in life that adults don’t have any management over. And we encourage their grief decision by saying it’s okay to cry, to specific worry and to achieve out for assist with their emotions.”

The middle comprises a room the place kids can do arts and crafts, an 80 seat auditorium, a prep kitchen and a neighborhood room. However some programming takes place offsite reminiscent of assist teams for college students in choose public faculties, grades Ok to 12. Good Grief workshops are additionally accessible in faculties to offer the youth coping abilities with grief. Then there’s Camp Erin a weekend in a single day, enjoyable camp internet hosting 35 grieving kids ages 6-17. It operates like different camps except journal writing and a grief stroll however holding different actions reminiscent of swimming, mountain climbing, canoeing and mountaineering. When dying comes into the lives of kids it brings anxiousness, panic assaults and a whole lot of despair. Getting the youngsters to speak, join with others, play and create is Roberta’s Place strategy to therapeutic the youth of their grief or trauma.
Lots of have skilled to be volunteers for offering counseling to grieving and traumatized adults additionally. The Roberta’s Home Bereavement Middle is a a lot wanted service within the Baltimore space. The violence, the virus, the ache and the punishment of dying will be overwhelming to all. A spot to speak in regards to the grief or trauma will be an emotional oasis in a desert of despair. Roberta’s Home, envisioned by Annette Grier March, for 30 years isn’t any mirage.